matt weighs in

Quick and to the point: thank a veteran the next chance you get. Rightfully so, our veterans in the U.S. have a day that is theirs. A day to honor their service to our country, whether volunteered or drafted, and the sacrifices they and their families made or are currently making.

I spent a lot of time with my Grandpa Butch and Grandma Dorothy from the time I was in grade school up until their deaths earlier this decade – 20+ years. I would ask him about his service in World War II every once in awhile, but one of my regrets is not talking about those years one more time with both of them and either recording it or writing it down.

I remember being fascinated by the stories of his ship being shot at in the Mediterranean. Maybe a family member can write a memoir of it, because I really enjoy telling my own kids stories from when I or their Grandpa Larry were younger. And I know they would enjoy hearing Grandpa Butch’s stories as much as I did. One of the only pictures I have on my desk at work is of Siena coloring with Grandpa Butch not long before he passed.

Many people choose to honor our veterans, because of the motto: “Land where we’re free, because they were brave.” And I, too, believe in that patriotism.

However, I honor our vets, because of the selflessness with which most of them chose to serve. They chose to leave family and close friends for months at a time to face horror and gore most of us can not imagine, but can somewhat understand through movies and documentaries. Our soldiers had no idea what they were getting into, but went and served honorably.

One of the most touching scenes I have ever unexpectedly encountered was in an airport when Laura and I were returning from a trip (we were either in Newark or San Diego). We saw a huge group of people, women, men, and kids, waiting outside security. Some had signs, but I wasn’t exacty sure what they were doing there. And just as we were passing, there was an erruption of cheers as a group of soldiers walked into view. They were returning from the Middle East after being gone for months. Hugs for and tears by all.

One could not help getting caught up in the moment and see on their faces what the separation did to them, and what joy they were feeling to be reunited, safe for a little longer before their next tour.

So, thank you veterans. You are brave and deserve all the praise you get, even if you usually think that you are just doing your job. We owe you. And that’s why you are my rave for today.